Exploring First Signs: Help Me

Due to a slight technical hitch we were unable to post yesterday but today we are able to continue our Exploring First Signs series with the sign for HELP ME.

Signing Help copyright Cath Smith from the LETS SIGN series at DeafBooks

How to sign HELP ME: Flat hands tap chest twice

There are other signs for HELP that you may have come across already; we choose to use this version at Little Signers Club as its very easy for your small child to be able to do for themselves, whilst the other signs require more dexterity and motor skill development.

Babies and especially toddlers benefit from using this sign hugely as they are able to request help with activities that they are involved in before frustration sets in – and therefore reducing the likelihood of meltdowns.

The sign for HELP ME can be used in many contexts and as your baby gets older, will allow them to express to you what they actually need help with and what they are trying to work out for themselves. 

When using signs with your baby or toddler, if they sign to you its a great idea to repeat the sign (and the associated word) straight back to them.  This reassures your child that you not only have understood their communication and / or request but that they understand that you are able to meet their immediate needs. 

This sign is one that your baby will be able to get to grips with very quickly once their gross motor function is established and will become refined over time.  As we have already discussed, some babies sign More by patting their tummies so do look carefully at the context in which your baby is signing so that you can differentiate their meaning.  If you are unsure, sign and say More?  then sign and say HELP?  Your baby may then repeat the sign or use vocal cues or body language to help you establish the correct need.

Tomorrow; the sign for PAIN / OUCH